MINIMAL MODELS FOR DYADIC PROCESSES: A REVIEW

This paper is a survey of a few recent contributions in which dyadic processes are studied as formal dynamical systems. For this, a general minimal model composed of two ordinary differential equations is first considered as a possible formal tool to mimic the dynamics of the feelings between two persons. The equations take into account three mechanisms of love growth and decay: the pleasure of being loved (return), the reaction to partner's appeal (instinct), and the forgetting process (oblivion). Under extremely simple assumptions on the behavior of the individuals, the minimal model turns out to be a positive linear system enjoying, as such, a number of remarkable properties, which are in agreement with common wisdom on the argument. These properties are used to explore the consequences that individual behavior can have on community structure. The main result along this line is that individual appeal is the driving force that creates order in the community. Then, in order to make the assumptions more realistic, in accordance with attachment theory, individuals are divided into secure and non secure individuals, and into synergic and non synergic individuals, for a total of four different classes. Using always the same minimal model, it is shown that couples composed of secure individuals, as well as couples composed of non synergic individuals can only have stationary modes of behavior. By contrast, couples composed of a secure and synergic individual and a non secure and non synergic individual can experience cyclic dynamics. In other words, the coexistence of insecurity and synergism in the couple is the minimum ingredient for cyclic love dynamics. Finally, a slightly more complex model, composed of three ordinary differential equations, proposed to study the dynamics of love between Petrarch, a celebrated Italian poet of the 14-th century, and Laura, a beautiful but married lady, is also reviewed. Possible extensions are mentioned at the end of the paper.